
You start tonight
Wash, oil, one pop. The whole thing takes about two minutes. Pick a time you'll actually remember — consistency is the part that matters.
We make feminine and intimate care that feels like self‑care, not a secret — glassy textures, honest ingredients, and packaging you'll never hide in a drawer again.
New bottles, new jars, same formulas you already love. The line you have been reordering for years, dressed the way it deserves — at prices that went down, not up.
It's not just what's in the jar. It's what it does — for the way you feel, the way you smell, the way you show up for yourself.

No filler, no gimmicks — just formulas that do exactly what they say, every single time.

Who said self-care down there had to be boring? We turned the routine into something you actually look forward to.

Confidence starts from the inside. This is the routine that gets you feeling like yourself again.

300,000+ orders and counting — we didn't write the hype, our customers did.



This is the snapback in a bottle. For every woman who wants that grip back, and every woman ready to feel like herself again — this is it. Not a "maybe." Not a "we'll see." This is the one your girls won't stop texting you about, the one that sells out and comes right back to a waitlist. And now it's even better: every jar comes with 30 count, up from 20 — and the price came down, not up.
"I've bought six jars since March. I don't even wait for the reminder email anymore — I just know when it's time."
Y'all. I don't know what's in this jar but I feel like myself again. My husband noticed before I even said anything.
Bought this after my second baby thinking it was too good to be true. It's not. This is the one everyone should know about.
I've recommended this to every mom in my group chat. We're all on our third jar. It's basically a group subscription at this point.
The full ritual, side by side — wash, oil, restore, tighten, climax.
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The one that fixes smell and taste, and the step most people skip.
All five steps together, in order. $129 if you buy them one at a time.
An herbal oil with a soft rose scent. Two drops on warm skin, straight out the shower.

All five steps together, in order. $129 if you buy them one at a time.
The reset button for when your balance gets knocked sideways.
All five steps together, in order. $129 if you buy them one at a time.
The headliner. One pop before, and you feel it the same night.
All five steps together, in order. $129 if you buy them one at a time.
An arousal gel. You put a little on your clit before or during, and it warms up and makes everything far more sensitive.
All five steps together, in order. $129 if you buy them one at a time.
Girl, tell us what's going on. Let Mi & My get you together real quick.
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Mix and match your favorites, your way — the more you build, the bigger the discount. Save up to 20%.
The five products our customers keep coming back for — and reordering before they run out.
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We're not a boardroom guessing what women want. We're the women. We know exactly what a good-smelling, well-balanced, confident kitty actually needs — because we live it too.



Tightening Pops, Climaxx Pops, and Wet Pops — the three-in-one bundle our customers reorder more than anything else. Firm, intensify, and moisturize, all in one routine.
Here's what your first month with the routine actually looks like.
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Wash, oil, one pop. The whole thing takes about two minutes. Pick a time you'll actually remember — consistency is the part that matters.

One a day, same time, no doubling up if you miss one. This is the week our girls tell us it stops feeling like a chore and starts feeling like yours.

Your Big O jar runs out right about the time the month does. Most of our girls are reordering around here, so the routine never has a gap in it.
Sweet Like Honey
Bomb Kitty Oil
Restore Pops
Tightening Pops
Climaxx Gel
Big O Climaxx Gel, Tightening Pops, Sweet Kitty Restore Pops, Sweet Like Honey Yoni Wash, and Bomb Kitty Yoni Oil — the full routine, together, for whenever the night calls for it.
300,000+ orders and counting — here's what they're saying in their own words.
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Mi & My started at my kitchen table, but the story really started years before that.
When I became sexually active, I realized how little I actually knew about my own body. When I finally had questions, I wasn't met with support — I was met with shame.
Years later, when I decided to build a business that would let me be home with my daughters, I knew exactly what I wanted it to stand for. I didn't want to build just another intimate care company. I wanted to build the brand I wish existed when I needed it most — a brand where women could care for themselves, ask questions, and never feel ashamed for being a woman.
This is for my girls. This is for you. Shameless, on purpose.
No filters, no fluff — just the stuff we actually talk about.
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Two kids, one jar of Tightening Pops, and a whole lot of "wait, what changed?" Here's what actually happened.
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He thought he knew what he was working with. Then I restocked. A cautionary tale, told with love.
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Smell, texture, mood swings down there — your body talks. Here's how to actually listen.
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Pick everything that fits — this changes what we’d start you on.
Be honest — there’s no wrong answer.
Starting small is fine. So is going all in.